Mostly, although I say I am a grumpy old woman, I have a sense of humour about things and I am generally optimistic. Give me a half a glass of water and I will say it's half full.
But last night I completely lost my sense of humour. Yes, some drink had been had, but no excuse.
I used more 'f**k's' in a sentence than I have in a long time.
I have had a pretty grim week at work....
I had a bout of IBS on Friday night and ended up in bed by 9.30pm.
I have the lie in on Saturdays but woke up exhausted and couldn't shake the tiredness all day. I did nothing with the kids and was irritable with them.
I had also woken up covered from the neck down in a rash, and after speaking to the hospital I have to stop taking the tablets for the gout that the other tablets may cause. And I had my period.
I second guess every feeling, every ache, is it my disease, is it a side effect from the tablets?
On Saturday some friends came over and I thought I was coming out of this grump. I cooked a meal for them, drank some wine and we started playing a game that normally has us all falling about laughing. And I was.
But then something was said and I flipped, I was so angry and pissed off.
I went to bed, I was in bed by 10.45pm and very upset.
I am angry that I am ill that doctors refer to 'my disease', I am angry that I have no energy, I am angry that I have to continue as if I haven't had totally earth shattering news, and when I am not angry I slip into the world of what if's....what if I don't see my girls grow up, what if I am not there for all their firsts..first boyfriend, first kiss, first day in a job, at college? My head could explode with the what if's....what if my husband can't cope? What if after working for all these years I don't get to retire and do all the things we wanted.
What if I have wasted time, missed opportunities, not done all the things I intended.
So I want to say I am sorry. Sorry to anyone who may be on the receiving end of my anger it wasn't meant for you. I am just a little bit out of sorts, and I am sure if there was a counsellor out there they would tell me it is normal to go through this and then I will move to acceptance. (I am even angry about that...)
I am sorry for this self pitying dialogue - this is not my normal style - I just needed to get things off my chest. I feel a bit better now.
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